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30-35,
*oselio Giron
writes:As cliche as this sounds: I have fallen head over heels for a certain girl (we'll call her Jenny), and yet I'm too shy to tell her how I feel. We've known each other for years, but recently we just started hanging out together more and more often. She asked me out to the movies this evening (much joy to hear that), and when I walked in, she was wearing an exquisite dress that only made me fall for her more. I melted when she asked me if she was overdressed, and all I could tell her was how beautiful she looked. During the movie (post-grad), our elbows and arms met a few times. And there were moments when we would rest our heads together for no more than 5 seconds. We'd often say "I love you" to each other, but it was more on the playful side, rather than serious/intimate. Whenever she would say something random about the movie, we'd look each other in the eyes and our faces were so close together that it became more and more difficult to resist the urge to kiss her on the lips right then and there.I just got back, and I haven't been able to stop thinking about her this entire evening. Another obstacle that's been bothering me is her sexual orientation, she always seems to hang out with her best friend (also female), and often they would hold hands when they go places. And often, she would also discuss topics that made me think she was either bi-sexual or lesbian. She has dated guys before, but the way she is, it's hard to tell whether she's straight, bi, or lesbian.I need to know what my first step should be. I want to be able to give her hints that show I like her, probably more. I'm a shy guy on a regular basis, and she's the type of girl that enjoys partying and drinking. So yes, I understand this may be a challenge.Any help/advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you. We have another date schedule for tomorrow night...
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reader, S-A-M  +, writes (12 September 2009):
 after the date tell her that u really like hanging out with her and u would like to do it again sometime, after she goes text her saying 'missing you all ready :) x' (easiest way to hint you like her). wait and see wat she txts back if she ses 'missing u to x' than she might like u back. that worked with me anyways with the girl that i was in love with i asked her out the next day and she sed yes :)
Any it sounds like she likes ou back, asking you to cum to the movies, the exquisite dress saying i love u to each other, i think she really likes you back you should tell her how u feel i know wat its like it eats you up inside you just want to hold her in your arms, i think you should tell her you neeed to get it off your chest.
And about the bi-sexual thing. girls talk about topics that would make u think there wer bi quite alot trust me i had qite a few girls as friends they talk about that kind off stuff all the time so she's probably not bi but u never know. And good luck hope it all works out for u in the end.
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