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30-35,
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writes:hi there! Friends, i am a student of 9th Class, i am overweigted and shy guy. All students irritate me, laugh at me without any reason and i don't have any in this class but last year i had many friends and they said that i am a good friend. Why is this so OR what should i do. Plz plz help me. I would be very thankful to you.Thanks!!
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reader, texas_princess  +, writes (8 November 2009):
 Making friends has NOTHING to do with your outward appearance. Some of the fattest, ugliest people in the world are very popular! It's all about swagga... charm. Not letting little things get to you and BEING a good friend before you expect to get the favor returned. BE YOURSELF. When you enter a room act like you own it and everyone in that room is your best friend. I'll let you in on one more little secret... everyone in that room... deep down... feels the same way you do, they are just better actors. Human beings by nature want to be accepted and are harder on themselves than anyone else ever could be!! The power is in knowing that everyone around you wants to be accepted just as much as YOU do... so why not accept them, make the first step, always smile, always say hello, god bless you when someone sneezes.... be happy and polite and your smile will be contageous! Good luck!
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