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anonymous
writes: Okay..my first cousin (she's 17 and im 16 year old GIRL) wants to date me. We used to do sexual things(just oral) when we were younger but i didn't think this would happen.I know deep down i feel the same about her but i dont know what to do.She also wants to take my virginty...I mean, i know i want to but im scared.1. Should i just date her secretly and then break it off when we get a little older? 2. Should i have sex with her (i think i want to)? 3.Should i even date her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2009): Absolutly DO NOT date her secretly. That shows that your ashamed of being either bisexual or lesbian and you shouldn't be. Also, I wouldn't advice having sex. Sex is not something you just throw around its the ultimate act of intimacy and should happen with the one you love. So consider carefully before you make a choice you will regret. As to dating her, that is your choice. It all depends what your feelings for her are. If you think the relationship could go somewhere, then make your move but be open and honest or it will just be bad
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