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*mylynn236
writes: I was wondering if it is normal for a man to masturbate after sex, even if he cums? also if a man tells me he loves me dring sex, what does that mean? he only said when we were in the act. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (9 November 2009):
In my opinion, it would be "unusual," particularly if frequently.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2009): Sometimes a guy wants a second round and she doesn't. You're left with all kinds of hormones and adrenaline, and sometimes you just want to relive the experience right away. I've certainly done it. If she was open to it, I've had her manually stimulate me as round two. I don't know if it's "normal", but it's hardly unprecedented.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (8 November 2009):
I don't like to use the word "normal" to make reference to sex. I prefer to use terms such as "common" or "not common". Please notice that the word "uncommon" would have a different nuance to it.
In my view of things, I can't see why a man would masturbate after having sex with a woman. I assume that he wanted to relieve more sexual pressure, and that the woman in question (you) would not have sex with him again. I may be wrong.
As to saying "I love you" during sex, it can be "the real thing", that is to say, that he really loves you, or that he loved what he was feeling and said those words to mean just that. I'm afraid I can't tell you if he really meant to say he truly loves you.
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