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30-35,
*eggafritz
writes:Hello!Im dumb with boy troubles.Six months ago, I was suppost to date this guy called Zak whos 16, Im 15.Everything was working out perfect, until we got into a fight, and stopped talking.Then I dated this guy called Dylan for three months, everything was great, well thats what I thought. I broke up with him, and now that I tihnk of it, it was horrible!After that I tried Brandon, he was PERFECT, he got along with my friends, and everything, then he cheated on me, he regreats it, and he's asking for me back, but Im ignoring it, because Im not sure if I can trust him again... Thats not what this is about though, this is about Zak. I started talking to Zak about a month ago, and he's been acting like my very best friend again, and the thing is, Im starting to like him again.I hate it, i dont want to but I am!He doesn't like me though, even though he acts like it a lot, he doesn't.Im totally head over heels. But I have no clue what to do!!! Should I go back to Brandon? Who I still really like? But will I be able to trust him again... I dont know.Or should I hold on to Zak, who might not even want to give me another chance?HELP!!!!!!
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reader, old-spinstah  +, writes (8 November 2009):
I'm with caringguy on this one. Choose neither, give yourself a break for a couple of months and see how they behave. Hopefully in those few months someone else will turn up who's not a jerk.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 November 2009):
Go with neither of them. If you truly loved one of these guys, you'd be with him and you wouldn't need to ask your question. One guy cheated on you, so he isn't worth your time, and the other fought with you and stopped contact, so he's not worth it either. Instead, spend a lot of time focusing on yourself for now, and when you're ready, find a guy who won't hurt you.
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