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writes: my ex and i might get back and so I am probably jumping ahead but he did tell me he was thinking of giving up his apartment and just stay at his mom's to save money..most nights he is there anyways so she isn't alone. The idea of it doesn't bother me, still care for him him no matter what but it will just make things very hard b/c i live at home b/c i can't afford a place yet while paying off loans....i guess i am just thinking further down how we really won't have any privacy at all..it was nice eating dinner together alone, just spending time watching movies and not be out all the time, going to bed at night together, waking up together--those things i would miss very very much and would have a hard time not having that closeness..I found myself more connected with him with a nice night in rather than being out at night which is when we would see each other. Especially after awhile of dating, we both were more interested in spending time at home together rather than going out all the time. He is in his 30's and i am a little younger so we aren't in highschool or early 20's.Staying at his mom's wouldnt be an option--i havent even seen his room but i know its very small and it would just be awkward as welli just really like that closeness of being home together, kind of having our routine there or getting groceries, going to bed at night together and that wouldn't exist anymore with this situation. Things will be pretty difficult b/c we don't live super close...i guess its just hard b/c i loved when we had the apartment to just spend time together, make breakfest or whatever..and now we wouldnt have that. Am i overreacting??
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2009): we aren't living together..renting is not cheap where i am..people pay more than what he is paying to live with 2 roomates.
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