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writes:i have been seeing an older man secretly for a year my parents know him but don't know about us he is not married he has a farm right next to us and i help him all the time we our going to get married this weekend when we go to a cattle sale in another town how do we tell my parents when we get back if i tell them before they will try to keep me from going because he is five years older they do not want we to date or marry some more then a year older
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2009): Wahey! Hope that your wedding is amazing xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe told my parents before we left this morning and they loved that we were getting married and they had know about us the whole time and i have a job i am a wedding planner and i own a house we our saleing it
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2009): Don't marry him without your parent's knowledge, it is the biggest insult ever.
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reader, fbtf09 +, writes (8 November 2009):
I agree. If you are worried about your parent's approval, you are not mature enough to get married. Also, if you have not been able to openly date him, there is definitely something else wrong.
Anyway, the best way is to tell them BEFORE. If you insist on waiting til afterwards, its could be bc you are afraid of them changing your mind, and are therefore not ready. Also, telling them after creates a lot more mistrust and negative feelings for not putting your fears aside and allowing them to be a part of your big day as parents all want to be.
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