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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, just a quick question about flirting. This girl and I have been flirting for a while, mostly harmless but sometimes more suggestive. Recently, we were flirting by text, and she sent me a teasing message, questioning my sexual experience, jokingly suggesting that I probably haven't had much!I don't think she was making fun of me, but it took me a bit by surprise. Was this still part of the flirting? And what answer would she want me to give?!
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reader, old-spinstah +, writes (8 November 2009):
I think that this is definitely part of the flirting. Obviously I can't read her mind but I think she may be trying to move things along a little if you haven't flirted at this level before.
I take it that this is welcome attention and that both of you are available (i.e not married)
How you reply to her is a more difficult question to answer because you know her better than anyone else here, the nature of your relationship and the usual explicitness of your flirting.
If it were me I might try one of the following replies
"What makes you think that?" (that I'm inexperienced)
or
"Why? Do I look like a need a teacher?"
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reader, Candy_Cake_Mush  +, writes (8 November 2009):
Aww. =) Yeah she was probably still flirting if it was in a teasing manner. She probably really wanted to know your sexual history for real though but teasing you about it seems a lot more casual than just saying "HEY YOU! I DEMAND TO KNOW HOW MANY WOMEN YOU'VE SLEPT WITH!!" ya know? =]
As for the answer, you coulda played along or teased her back.
Hope I helped a little!
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