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*avhez
writes:ok here it goes.....i like this guy in uni, we met offically just over a week ago but i liked him before then..whats been happening is there is some major flirting and chatting when we are sober, and when i was drunk i propa came on to him but he didnt take it seriously!!! we were holding hands, dancing, hugging and talking all nite and he smelt sooooo gud, he kept sayin to me ur sooo beautiful and ur amazing and i was like ok so kiss me then but he was like ur wasted ur wasted it wont mean anything he was kissing my on the head all the time or the kiss jus not the lips...during the nite i found someone else (to kiss which didnt mean anything ironicly but he wud have) anyway i saw him again we stayed until the end of the nite then his ex came up to him and i just walked off.my memories are abit blurred but i just want to know if he's jus f****** me around or not. ooohhh and also he liked my mate at first coz thats how we met i told him to talk to her but he jus spent that nite talkin to me then he came round to watch movies and was just talking to me...also coz we live on campus we sometimes see each other at dinner and breakfast and he always says hi to me before i speak to him i'm really confused about him liking me.plz help thanks if it seems lik he wants to be mates then thats cool but mixed signals are not gud!! xx
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reader, lavhez +, writes (8 November 2009):
lavhez is verified as being by the original poster of the question lol not sure what the MMS thing is but he's deffo not a shy person he acts well loud and flirty and i feel soooooo embrassed by how i acted i was litraly all over him i totally shamed myself...i dropped his drink all down him and other stuff happened i was not in a very clear state but i do remember him saying to me ur beautifully etc and i was like ok soooo why wont you kiss me then and it was ur wasted ur wasted..........to be honest this is stressing me out lol just not sure how to act around him now :(
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 November 2009):
Yeah, I agree with the post below. Modern Men Sydrome (haven't heard that before actually) sounds about right. He's probably scared and shy because he can't read you either, so gently get to know him and see where it leads.
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (8 November 2009):
 he probably likes u but suffers from the MMS (modern men syndrome) which is the syndrom where guys these days are too scared to take initiative. I suggest you become a little smart with him. Jokingly say "so you never told me what that kiss was about..."
Good luck
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