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writes:Ok this is kind of long but I really need your guys's help. Ok I just started highschool and there's this boy that im very confused about. He's a sophmore but should be a junior because he got held back cause he had to go to rehab...anyways he has a real big crush on me. Keep in mind I never had a boyfriend.He seems really nice when he's talkin to me and we like the same music and stuff like that but im hearing awful, awful things about him. All his friends say bad things about him right after he leaves the room, which I think is a sign. They say that he's grimey, he's putting on an act to gain my trust so ill ave sex with him, that he says he's only going after me because im mad hot, that he's gonna try to get me drunk, and that he's done this many times with girls before. And 4 of his friends told me the exact same story. Also, his he has an ex girlfriend that he trashes all the time and his friend told me that when they were going out, he got her kicked out of her foster home and claimed he loved her but now that they're broken up, claims he only said that "cause of her tits".So he sounds really sleazy but he has done a thing to hint that to me himself. Like if his friends hadn't said anything, I would have no red flags up ya know?So my questions to you are 1. Should I confront him about what I've heartd to give him a fair shot to explain himself and if so, how should I say what I've heard without dropping names and 2. Is he even worth all this time and all this stress?
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reader, Sweety Pie  +, writes (8 November 2009):
 hmm... well if he wants to get you into bed then hes bound to be nice to you.
If what his mates are saying is true, he doesnt sound like a nice guy.
Id ask him nicely about it. Be careful and dont get too involved,
Good luck
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