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writes:Ok Basically, My Girlfriend and I have been in an intimate relationship for about a month and half now, and within this time I have found I have a strange inability to kiss on the cheek. I've tried so many times but it feels like I'm never going to master how to, I just can't get the technique right at all. We joke about it but it's really starting to get on my nerves and it feels like I can't be as loving as I'd like to be. It's meant to be so simple, is there anyone out there who can just simply break down the technique of how your meant to kiss on the cheek for me? All I've been able to find on the net in terms of how to is 'brushing your lips along you partners cheek', and that is not a kiss on the cheek. Can anyone help me out and tell me how your meant to? I'd really appreciate it.
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reader, Legioness  +, writes (10 November 2009):
 Ahh yes, try breathing through your nose when you kiss her on the cheek, that should soon sort that one out :) ooh yes please do keep me posted on how you get along. I hope it goes well for you and good luck! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk Legioness, thanks as your suggestion has made my cheek kissing 'slightly better', but what my girlfriend has pointed out is that I 'make a noise' when I kiss on the cheek which just shouldn't be there. I think I sorta inhale or briefly suck as I withdraw from the cheek, it's quite weird but it just seems to come naturally, so i'm guessing I need to simply teach myself not to do that..
As for my lips there not particularly full, not particularly thin, pretty standard really.
If you care for an update I should be seeing her again at least once before this week ends depending on time and I can inform you if I've more or less got or not.
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reader, Legioness +, writes (8 November 2009):
I shall do my best deary! :) oh I see, I think I get what you mean.. Right try this: keep your lips pressed together, normally, then kinda push them out a little, like a pout, but not so far out like a fish lol then like, withdraw the 'pout' but ever so slightly parting your lips when doing so. Give it a go? I'm sat here trying it myself on my boyfriend atm, oh he's loving it lol :) breathing isn't really a factor, but just do it through your nose.. Also another factor that may affect it is what your lips are like? Are they full, thin, one fuller than the other??
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk Legioness, well firstly thanks for taking the time to help me out if you can. Basically for starters I'm not sure what my lips should be like when I first connect with the cheek, my parents were simply not the sort to cheek kiss so I guess it's all new to me. My girlfriend told me initially that my mouth was too open when I made contact, she told me to try and start with my lips sealed and then sorta open when taking your head back. Originally I was doing the opposite to this, starting with a slightly open mouth and then closing when taking my head back, as if I was sorta trying to gently bite with my lips. I have tried to follow her advice but find it impossible. All I find myself able to do is just smuge my lips against her face, it's just tragic.. I can try and give you more details if you ask specific questions. Is breathing such as inhaling or exhaling significant when giving a cheek kiss? That sound so idiotic I'm sure, but I'm so desperate to figure out what I'm doing wrong and how to right it.
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reader, Legioness +, writes (8 November 2009):
Curious.. What exactly are you doing when you go to kiss her on the cheek? We need specifics here to pin point where you're 'going wrong'?
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