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writes:Me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly two years now, everything is going well but we have never had a good sex life but this was a mutual decision at first but then we both started enjoying it. But the main problem is over the past month or so she has stopped nearly all physical contact apart from the odd hug and peck on the cheek.im not asking for us to have sex all the time but i would just like it to be a lot more regular than it has been, and for us to have more physical contact than we currently are. What do you think i should do or is there something wrong with her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2009): She may not feel like sex and is avoiding contact as she is worried it will lead to sex. Sounds silly but it happens a lot. I wouldn't approach it in a what's wrong with you are you cheating way as others say, but just ask her WHY she has cut intimacy and sex out of your relationship, and that you miss feeling close to her.
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reader, sighingsoftly  +, writes (9 November 2009):
There could be OTHER issue under this such as something that happened between you two... a fight or somehting of the sort that could make her feel upset or depressed. She may have other sort of problems so try to speak with her calmly, privaetly and make her feel confortable and be open to changing something or listening or helping her in ways you can she'll think you are the most amazing guy ever. Rlly. The other possibility is that there is someone else or that she could be confused about her feelings. But dont go directly to the topic of "I wanna have mroe sex with you" or she'll take it the wrong way xD be patient :P.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (9 November 2009):
 OP Writes "What do you think i should do?
I realize that I am just guessing here. And you may have already done some of this, but my take is:
Get a steady job. Your own place (house or apartment). And, Buy her an engagement ring. Two years without a commitment, I'd be cooling off too.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 November 2009):
You need to talk to her. If she's not kissing you either, then maybe something's wrong. She could be feeling upset or depressed. Is there anything going on in her life right now? I think you need to sit down with her and ask her how she's feeling, and really listen to her as well. Hopefully she'll open up to you, so be undertanding.
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