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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:i've known this girl through an online social site for 3 months. she's a lesbian and is also the first and only girl i have ever liked, and even though we have never met but my gut feeling tells me that if we both pursue further we might end up getting into a relationship..you can say we're pretty fond of each other.but the thing is that, i've only dated men in my life, and have clearly no experience in courting girls... whats worse is that she's a quite passive person and wouldn't make the move until i do (neither do i like to take initiatives!).. so we went through quite a bit of mindless games.it was so frustrating at one point i got fed up with guessing what's on her mind!our "relationship" is extremely new and anything that happens could affect the development of it...i don't know if it's the right thing to do, but im playing it really safe for now,like trying not to show too much concern for her etc.because i don't want to scare her away.we are meeting up in 2 weeks' time! i'm really stressful and worried that things might end up differently as what we both expected, even though deep down i know can't wait to see her in person. i'm desperate for advice and tips on how i should handle this better bcos i don't want to screw things up..how can i also stop feeling so scared about this and be cool with it??
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 November 2009):
Relax the be yourself. Don't try to be someone else. You want her to know YOU, not some alter ego. Listen to her, ask questions about her and let her talk to you too. Be honest and open, and you should be okay.Good luck.
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