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writes:Well, i just want to ask you lady's out there what you would do if you caught your boyfriend out, that he had been asking your BROTHER to see NAKED pictures of my brother's girlfriend.My boyfriend says that its just natural for a lad, and i would look at a naked lad if my friend was showing the pictures round but:1. No i would'nt2. my brother wasnt even showing them round my boyfriend ASKED to see them on more than one occasion.I dumped him over this, not only was it a gril from my SCHOOL, but an ex best friend which i now cant stand the site of because of MANY reason's.he said any lad would do it but i really dont understand why he would do this to me :(. i really cant belive it. i cried, i dont no wether im over reacting what do you lot think ?? Would you lads really look and your girl friends brother's girlfriends naked pictures. it just makes me feel sick am i no good enough ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2009): You are both right. You are both very young. He thought you and everyone else would be like him. You thought others would be like you. Yea there are a few guys like that and there are a few girls like that as well. Everyone has their own ideas about what are the limits regarding "cheating." So it was up to you to decide if you can handle this. You couldn't. Now stop analyzing it. It DOESN'T mean you are not good enough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2009): If he ASKED to see them, then he's being a jerk. If they were presented before him or offered to him and he looked, then he's just being a typical guy, and I wouldn't worry about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2009): No, most guys would NOT do this. it is NOT standard guy behaviour. Because he is so young- if he's your age- he will probably grow out of it and realise what an ass he was as a teenager.
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (9 November 2009):
 You're right. That was ROTTEN of him to do and NO, guys aren't all like that!
Guy Code actually prevents us from looking at a friend's girlfriend like that, so he's violating not only common decency, but also social rules for men.
I'm glad you have enough self respect to dump him. You can do better.
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reader, LessonsLearned +, writes (9 November 2009):
First of all. And let this be the first time and the last time you hear this. It will save you mounds of heart ache and worry. Nothing a man does sexually is because of you. It's because of him and his desires over which he has varying levels of control. A boy in your age range has about the level of self control as that dog that humps your leg when you go over your uncles house. That's why relationships don't last very long when you're young. Now, later, you'll find guys who are a little more mature, a little more reliable, and those are what we call "good guys". Those are the ones you make relationships with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2009): NO its not natural for a guy to ask to see another womens naked pictures, his a pervert.
It is extremely inappropriate for him to be asking that while he is in a relationship with you.
Its good you dumped him, you can do better then a pervert like him, my suggestion is to hold your head high and walk away from him and regain your confidence.
And never doubt your not good enough, this is not your fault, he is just a selfish individual who obviously only thinks about himselve and does not seem to be worried about your feelings.
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