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writes:I have recently decided to reconnect with my old school friends and most importantly, reconnect with a woman who I had a crush on in high school but never had the courage to ask out.I met her on Facebook and I post chat with her on a somewhat regular basis. mostly these chats are limited to comments on her statuses. I have also made about 3 phone calls to her and the fact she seemed comfortable with my presence (so much she actually told me her fetishes and smoe slightly personal details about herself which I cant reveal here on our very first chat.) After our 3rd call, I suggested meeting her over coffee and she agreed but she was quite busy with work so I had to wait a week.It has been 2 weeks since. I really want to see her again but there has been no answer. I'm starting to get a little paranoid so i would like to ask if this is some way of her telling me that she would not like to talk or see me ever again. I still sms her on a semi regular basis but I have never brought this issue up. Should i go ahead and try to arrange for a meeting anyway (maybe she forgot?), wait somemore? or just give up?
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reader, bitterblue  +, writes (8 November 2009):
 She was comfortable enough to give you some personal details, but I know people who give theirs away quite easily, usually outgoing ones who like to talk about themselves. It doesn't mean she trusts you or that you trust her. You have changed a lot and have a lot to catch up with, if you give yourselves this chance. She could simply have other things on her agenda at the moment, do you know she is single? Some prefer a more forward or on the contrary bland approach so judge on that. In this case, I agree with the poster below, about being a good friend to her, for now. Cut down on texts, I personally would prefer a phone call to many texts. And friendship does make a great foundation for a relationship, should you both be willing to try, later on.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 November 2009):
Give her more time, and stop texting her as much. You might be scaring her. Just spend tim being a good friend to her and listen to her. If she really likes you and wants to meet, she'll make it clear.
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