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writes:I have been in a non committed relationship for nearly 7 years. We are long distance and meet up every now and then for a bit of fun and company. I know that he has slept with others and so have I during our off periods.He does his own thing, we holiday separately, but when we're together we always have a fantastic time and the sex is great.However he has been quite distant recently and mentioned that he is meeting up with a girl he met on holiday...I did feel a pang of jealousy, shrugged it off and wished him all the best. But he said that he would never want to lose me and he would be upset if I was to go off with someone else....I've played it cool, but am not sure what to do next....was he looking for a reaction from me to see if I cared...I'm not sure what his motive is?
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reader, Rosy  +, writes (6 December 2009):
he can go off with another woman disregarding how u feel but u cant? Pack up move on and dont look back coz he'l never feel the same way, if he wanted to have a serious relationship with you it would have happende by now, but all he wants is to dangle u on like a fish bait when he has nothong else to do. Find someone worthy that wont give u pangs of jealosy, but will give u alot of happiness. GOod luck.:) XxX
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009): CaringGuy is right. If I were you, I would give him an ultimatum. Tell him that he needs to either commit to you, in a serious way, or you are going to move on. Just be prepared to accept either option.
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reader, doctorlove  +, writes (6 December 2009):
Talk to him when you see him next. Ask him if he is serious about you and him. If he says he don't know ask if it would be wise to be friends until you both got you lives together. As for seeing other people and the jealousy... no matter how far apart you are if you are in love you wouldn't be having any other person and neither should he.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 December 2009):
Oh sweetie, he isn't ever going to commit to you, I hope you know that. I think as it is he's only interested in having you as another woman in his life. If he really loved you, he would have committed. I think if you're looking for more, you should perhaps move on before you get hurt.
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