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age
36-40,
*ubblygirl
writes:My boyfriend is a barstar and I need some adviceIm not a fan of his behavious and dont know what to do. We have been dating for almost 4 months. He goes out almost every weekend to the bar and almost always gets drunk, passes out at home and wakes up with a hangover. He's 25 and he still does this.Sometimes he'll take me along and other times he just goes with his guy friends.I guess what really bugs me is:1) He says he goes out to have drinks, get out of the house with his friends and 'people watch'. Why not do that at a pub instead of a bar with tons of women?2) I know that girls approach him because I have seen it/heard it from him. Im trying to trust him but I get annoyed when i see/hear of girls doing this.My friends laugh at me because of my bar star boyfriend and I dont know what to do! Please help!!
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (6 December 2009):
So what if he's 25 and still does it? I'm 25 and still do it! Lol. Anyway, he's more of a partier than you want. So you can try joining him more often, tell him that you'd prefer it if he didn't go out to the bars so much, go out with your girlfriends to a different bar when he goes out, or you can find someone that doesn't like the bar scene so much. There's a lot of people out there that don't like to party that often.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (6 December 2009):
He likes going to bars..... So you can either demand that he changes his life and friends and becomes the person you want....
Or you can find a guy who doesn't like bars to be your boyfriend.
I love going to bars, and yes sometimes people flirt, but it's not exactly a swingers club.
Good Luck!! xx
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