A
female
age
36-40,
*illiemoo1
writes: My boy friend any I have only been together 4 weeks and have a great relationship and I'm very happy but every time it comes down to having sex I just can't be bothered to have sex. I enjoy having sex and especially with him but I have always been the same!we have tried all sorts of different positions and exciting things but I have always been the same in all my relationships and don't know what I can do to stop the laziness? Reply to this Question Share |
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male
reader, Advice_man +, writes (6 December 2009):
Maybe you are just cold hearted, you never really learned to truly love someone, to find joy in giving and sharing and you just have this "default apathy". Maybe you developed this mechanism in the subconscious part of your mind to protect yourself from being hurt.
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