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We have been together for 4 weeks and I am too lazy to have sex

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Question - (6 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 December 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *illiemoo1 writes:

My boy friend any I have only been together 4 weeks and have a great relationship and I'm very happy but every time it comes down to having sex I just can't be bothered to have sex. I enjoy having sex and especially with him but I have always been the same!

we have tried all sorts of different positions and exciting things but I have always been the same in all my relationships and don't know what I can do to stop the laziness?

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A male reader, Advice_man United States +, writes (6 December 2009):

Advice_man agony auntMaybe you are just cold hearted, you never really learned to truly love someone, to find joy in giving and sharing and you just have this "default apathy". Maybe you developed this mechanism in the subconscious part of your mind to protect yourself from being hurt.

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