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anonymous
writes:Hi there, I am new on this site and I really need advice, ok so I have been seeing a girl for a year right now, I love her so much with every second of my day I have her in my mind, when we met we had so much love for each other, she was the most amazing girl. The love we had for each other was so strong, but on the way I broke her heart, I have an anger problem and I tend to overreact, she knows about it and I asked her to understand me and help me through, she did it but I somehow took advantage of her help and I would shout at her make her cry and so on but I always told her it was never my intention coz I would mess up and realize and beg her to forgive me, she would, but recently she broke up with me and involved her relatives who told me never to call her or send her masseges, I did so but with the love I had for this girl I struggled so much for 3 weeks. I became so weak and guys laughed at me coz I was so much in love, suprisingly she called me at one instance despite what she had done to me (which I don't blame her). and asked us to meet and talk. I was so happy and could not believe it, when we met she apologised for what she had done and told me despite what her parents think or say she wants us to start all over again, so we are togethor but my biggest problem is the love we had is no longer the same. We used to spend hours on the phone every day, we used to meet daily but these days if I asked her to meet she says no, I get her a gift and she turns me down, I call her like a week continuously and miss one day but it doesnt seeem to bother her, I love her so much and she knows, I ask her why she's hurting me so much despite the changes I made and how I struggle to deal with my anger problem, but she says she's recovering yet am there to help her. In short she's being too cold towards me and I feel like I don't deserve this. I feel like giving up on her coz I tell how much I love her and she does too but I just dont see it.Someone help, I made so many wrong choices and I dont want to walk away from this love and later regret it and being with her is torturing me emotionally and gives me a hell of time, if someone thinks I am wrong or she is wrong, advise me. I love her so much and am afraid of losing her. Why is she being so cold even after me changing and being there for her?
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