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writes:Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post.Question 1: I have been pregnant before, but had an abortion becasue my boyfriend and i werent mature enough or financially stable enough to have a child. This was when i was . . . 2/3 years ago, and i am now 19. Everytime i get a feeling similar to what i had when i was pregnant i get really on edge . . how can i help this ?? i have been having all the same symptoms lately and my period is due in a couple of days. Im really scared. Im in Uni at the moment, but cant go through the heartche again. . . Am i just Paranoid ? I have ordered two pregnancy tests. the same ones that told me i was before becasue i know that they work. What should i do ?Question 2: Me and my boyfriend will be celebrating our 4th year anniversary on the 12th of February 2010. He is the only person i have had sex with, im 19 and he is 21. I cant think of my life without him. . . we have bben through a lot together and come out the other end stronger for it. My friends think i should go out with someone else to compare what im feeling. they say its just becasue he is ur first. But i honestly dont want any one else. I know im only young but i am very mature for my age and have had to make some hard decisions in my life. What should i do?
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reader, DarrylLouiseE +, writes (6 December 2009):
DarrylLouiseE is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks a lot CaringGuy. I never thought of seeing a councellor :D maybe it will help. Thanks again :D
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 December 2009):
Your friends are wrong. You shouldn't just go with someone else to see how you feel. If you do, you'll lose your boyfriend and be unhappy. He's with you, he loves you, and you love him. Don't listen to your friends this time.
As for the pregnancy thing, continue to look at your symptoms, and if you are in any doubt, go to the doctor. I hope you were using contraception (the pill and condoms) to make sure you were as safe as you possibly could be. If you are pregnant, then you are going to have to make some more hard choices about your life. If not, then it could be that you're suffering from your abortion, in which case I would suggest going to a specialist counsellor so you can get all your feelings out and understand them.
Hope it works out for you.
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