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30-35,
anonymous
writes: hi, me and my gf who i really cared about broke up a couple months ago we dated for a year in were actually in love.things when bad like most tyoung relationships do(im 19, she is 17). Our relationship was still good though and im not getting over it as fast as i liked but im getting there. i mainly just miss the fact that we were such good friends as well. we depended on each other. now she cannot barely hold a convo with me, and when we txt she wont answer back after a couple minutes. i have a new gf that has been there for me even as a friend for two years so im happy with her, but i atleast want a connection with my ex or maybe for us to be friends or just two people that know eachother well and love eachother but went seperate ways. is she done with me all together or just confused? will we ever have a positive connection even if it isnt as a couple? how is she progressing so well without caring? thank you
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 December 2009):
Forget your ex. She's in the past, and it's better to let her go. You have a new girlfriend who has been there for you, and it will undermine her and hurt her to know that you're running after your ex. Don't make the mistake so many make, which is to waste time trying to get an ex's connection. Let her go, focus on your new girlfriend.
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