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anonymous
writes:I looked up stuff about my boyfriend's first ex. theres plenty of stuff about him and her. and how much he loved her and how much she wants him back even though its been a year since their break up. and I've been scared ever since. what if he leaves me for her one day? we have been together almost close to ten months soon or a year in three months. he understands and respects me for waiting to have sexhe works hard to make up for everything that goes wrong.we talk about our problems and he cheers me up.we hug and kiss and cuddle alot.we live about 20 miles apart. but we see each once or twice monthly.he says he loves me a lot. calls me his goddess.but nowhere over internet on our sites just in text or our chats; im scared he might not want anyone to know. but from how he says it and he worries over my safety all the time i think he does. whenever he holds me i feel safe and loved.from the net i have found out that his first ex wants him back shes been saying it for months. i found her no. and a sent text to her recently but not much on, on his mobile. he say they are good friends but not spoken in ages.she left her previous boyfriend to be with him, but he say no and somewhere i found that she reckons they still like each other.i scared. frightened. cant sleep, eat, walk or talk without feeling afraid. will he stay and love me or is there a possibility he might take her if she asks him back? i cant tell him anything because he not know i know everything.Help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009): i am the original poster of this question.
we been having arguements. he keeps saying he is stressed over work health and mind and whenever i call him he bails out a short while later. if i text him it a surprise if he does text back. he dont come on at right times though he knows i have college. and he dont seem as interested to talk to me as he once did when we first met; says he tired all the time.
i not sure if he might be reconsidering going back to her, fed up of me or he just dont care.
i been going through depression and have promised to make it up to him by trying me best to be the best for him. but i keep getting thoughts of him just not wanting me anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2009): if she has wanted him back for a while im sure he knows about it, he hasnt went back yet has he? so i wouldnt worry about this. If he still wanted her he would have went.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009): awwwww, you sound VERY insecure. Yes you are definitly paranoid lol. He sounds like like a very loyal person and think you should trust him. The BEST thing to do is tell him how you feel and what your scared of. He sounds understanding. If your too shy to tell him in person you can always tell him by text or over the phone. I promise you once you tell him how you feel you will calm down and be able to relax.
Good Luck and best wishes xx
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