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writes: So me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 2 years. But whenever i want to talk to him about the future, he freaks out and we always end up having a huge argument and we both end up crying. In the end he always apologises and we make up but it keeps happening. He said to me the other week that he doesnt see us having a future together. We have been together for 2 years!! Surely he should see a slight future! Im not asking him to marry me, i just want to know we are heading somewhere. After our last argument things appear to have got better, but i dont know whether thats because we havent spoke about the future. I dont want him to lie just to make me feel good, but i dont want us to keep arguing over this, surely it shouldnt happen after this long? What should i do?xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2009): If you can't talk to your boyfriend about your future without him freaking out, that's a big red flag. Get out now, before you waste any more of your time on him. You deserve someone who does want a future with you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 December 2009):
End it. He has said he sees you having no future. So that means at some point he will only dump you. I have an awful feeling he's only using you. There will be a lovely guy out there who will love you and want to be with you. But really think about what your boyfriend is saying to you. He's saying that he sees you having no future. So you're not going anywhere at all. I think for your own sake and own happiness, you would be better moving on and finding a guy who does love you.
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