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female
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41-50,
*ixieGwen
writes:I've been dating this guy for 3 mo.We see each other once a wk - Mainly me initiating it.Recently we had plans and he 4got to call(he told me b4 hand that he had to help a friend but wasnt sure what day of the wk/wknd it'd be.Well It was that day/night supposedly.I got pissed cos other friends asked to hang and I said I had plans w/ him.I tried my best not to sound too upset about it.He apologized.He recently insisted I start playing WOW(he plays it alot and had said he wished I played so we could play together).Ive Never been interested but I gave it a go.He said I could ask him 4 help but unfortunately I have alot of qs.On top of that I just start wondering.. why did he insist I play this game..didnt he'd know I'd ask him a shitload of qs? Why is he super nonchalant in gen. but when together he's super lovey dovey (affectionate I mean - IE holding hands,rubbing my back,kisses - not sex) and he seems a lil TOO comfy w/ me now.We recently started having sex and it's like I opened pandora's box (let's just say hes immature or can be gross) lol.It just seems like he likes me or being w/ me But I guess I dont really know how he feels about me lol.I dont want to be a pest.I enjoy his company alot.. it doesnt need to be serious - I just dont want him to think Im in love w/ him just cos I call to ask about the game..or initiate hanging out..should I just leave him alone for a little while..?seeing he "forgot" to call me doesnt seem to know when we're hanging next..
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reader, secret admirer12 +, writes (6 December 2009):
If you dont want to be in love with him then tell him how you feel and that you dont want to be in love with and dont say it hurtful just drop it just a little bit softer.dont want him to be that emotional.
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reader, PixieGwen +, writes (6 December 2009):
PixieGwen is verified as being by the original poster of the question i feel like we're friends.. atleast thats what i think..but im too nice sometimes - i cant help it ..and i think its comes off as i like the guy to much or are in love w/ them..just cos i do or say nice things.
im tryin to keep it casual and have a good time i just dont know if we're on the same page.seein i havent asked him.
i guess ill just leave him alone for a bit..and maybe see if he wants to get together in a wk or two..
i know.. i worry alot..which is why i have all these stupid questions..
i wish i didnt over think crap.. i try not to - its silly.
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