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I need help with harder erections with girlfriend!

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Question - (6 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2009)
A male Canada age 41-50, *ilopinoPhenom writes:

my gf wants to give me a handjob but i dont get super super hard while we makeout. she usually straddles me and we makeout while i caress her boobs and her bum and other places and the makeout is intense and i get semi hard but i never pull it out cuz its not really hard so it isnt fully big. what can she do to make me harder? will having the tv off help? she also dry humps me too. please help am i distracted during i need to keep my mind off other things? if i pull my penis out semi hard and she starts stroking me will i get harder?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2009):

u watch too much porn or jerkoff too much, stop doing that

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009):

Are you ever able to get hard enough? How about solo?

Here is something you could try. It can slowly help if you have a physical problem: Sleep in total darkness (get blackout curtains)and take 0.3-3mg of melatonin when you sleep. Smaller doses are often better.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (6 December 2009):

The problem is that you're distracted. When any man has other things on his mind, erections can be difficult to maintain. So instead, focus on the other problems and enjoy being with your girlfriend. Everything will work if you work out what other problems there are.

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