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writes:I'm 15 and my life is so boring i don't get to go out much because i don't know anyone so i stay at home all the time. I have one friend but he's boring as a stick he's the type of good person i wanna go out with but he doesn't like to do anything i try to make him all the time but he want so i don't have anyone else. I can't drive to take myself places so im stuck all the time at home. I don't have a girlfriend and can't really get one so can't go on a date or nothing. I get so depressed because i have know one and nothing to do.And i get jealous when like my cousins get to go out to places and have fun while im stuck at home and i don't wanna go with them i want my own fun life without family and it to late to join clubs at school and i have a 9 year cousin she makes me jealous all the time and she tries to sometime because she goes out all the time with like her little friends and get to do stuff all the time and i know it sounds stupid but it gets to me and make me jealous because im stuck at home bored and im a teenager i should be out having fun also and she sometimes tries to make me jealous because people say i don't never leave the house and she knows it because i get mad or get a attitude and look jealous whenever she brag about were she been. I when i ever go out at times i feel like im in competition with a 9 year old to do this and that because i have know life but i try my best to have 1 and when live in a small town and she knows more people than i do and i get a little jealous and she trys to make me at times and i know it stupid. I mean she talks on the phone more than i do that she be me i should be on the phone texting and talking to girls and stuff and i really try to do stuff like that but i have no one. This stuff is really getting to me because i feel like i have know purpose im boring but i try to do stuff all the time but i have know friends i can't find know good group of friends and my one friend is so boring and nerdy and want do anyting i can't wait until i get my license so i can live and go places. What can i possible do because i see my cousins everyday and it makes me even more depressed and angry. what can i do with my life.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (6 December 2009):
I would say to quit worrying about the 9-year old. I question why her parents let her have a cell phone and text friends? That is way over-the-top...but anyway. I think you should try going out with your cousins. You can meet some of their friends and it can be fun hanging out with your cousins. Regardless if they're family, I go out with some of my cousins and have a great time! I've made new friends thru them and they've made new friends thru me, and my cousins are some of my best friends anyway.
Also, besides clubs at school. How about sports? Just try out for anything. The spring season is coming up. How about baseball or swimming? Even if you don't excel at it, you should try and you'll definitely make new friends that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009): You're 15. You haven't started living yet so why be jealous of others. Give it at least 10 more years and Im sure you'll have your share of fun too.
And get a grip, how self-centered is it possible to be?? Your 9-year old cousin is only teasing you because you LET HER. Stop caring about what she says. Stop comparing YOUR LIFE to HERS. She's not you. You don't wanna be her. And may I add, you're sulky and screwing yourself over. Too late to join clubs? Do something else then. You don't wanna go out and MEET new people, because you'd be going with people you actually know (your cousins)?? Because you want our OWN life? Well you know what, suck it up and get yourself the life you want. Go out with your cousins, meet new people, THEN you might start to get somewhere.
No one wants to be friends with someone who's so bitter. N one would like to be friends with a guy who never leaves the house because he'd have to be NICE to other people then. Why don't you start treating your cousins like friends instead of enemies. Be nice to them. Then maybe others will think you are nice as well and would want to get to know you.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (6 December 2009):
Yep, being a 15 year old SUCKS.
My life was the same as yours. But the one thing I can say is that it gets SO MUCH BETTER in a couple of years time.
Just bide your time, work hard at school and then when you head off to uni in an amazing city then your life will really begin.
Good Luck!! xx
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