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My girlfriend is 15, I am three years older, we are considering sex

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Question - (6 December 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am 18, and my new girlfriend is 15. I have don't plan to have sex any time soon, but you never know.

I am wondering about the legalities if I were to have sex now; is it still statutory rape because i am 18 and shes 15, if for what ever reason the authorities did find out would they arrest me, and if so would I be a "sex offender" for the rest of my life?

we live in south carolina if that matters

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (7 December 2009):

DoubleM agony auntTotally illegal in America and you would be f*cking yourself up for life if caught and prosecuted.

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A female reader, doctorlove United States +, writes (6 December 2009):

She's 15 for crying out loud. she doesn't need to be having sex until she's about ummm let's see.... married!!!! So unless you want to be with her your whole life keep it in your pants!!! I at least waited until i knew I wanted to be with the person and I waited until i was engaged and soon to be wed. I'm glad I waited. What if something goes wrong and she ends up pregnant. Then your stuck with it either way!!

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A female reader, Legioness United Kingdom +, writes (6 December 2009):

Legioness agony auntWell it's illegal so if anyone were to find out, such as her parents or any other relatives, they could report you to the police and it would be classed as statutory rape, which is when the act of sex is consented but still underage. I guess it's not as bad as full on rape in a sense but it comes close to the line. You'd still be classed a sex offender and have a criminal record.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009):

dudeeeeee, i was 18 when i first had sex with my ex-gf. She was 15 then, so EXACTLY where you are right now. And i also live in SOCAL. YES! it would be considered rape, if you get caught by authorities, your life will be over. ALSO, make sure she won't use this against you... like i mean... after you guys have sex, dont cheat on her cuz if she ever rat out on you and call the cops, your life is over.

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