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writes:Ok we have known each other for almost 2 years but we are not that close to each other. She has a bf of 5 yearsbut she wants to end the relationship. Her bf just wouldn't allow for a brake up. They broke and patch back many times. She started to have feelings for me recently but on and off feelings toward me. She told me about her personal problems and what her bf did to her in the past. Sometimes she is confused about me because we both are same age and she thinks we wont work out because I don't have any exs or any experience in relationships but she told me I'm in her heart but she jus confused about me. But I started to like her since i saw her last year. SHE JUST CAN'T BRAKE UP WITH HER BF BECAUSE HE IS BEEN TOO POSSESSIVE AND SHE IS SCARED OF HER BF. AND I LOVE HER TOO. I DON'T WANT RUIN HER LIFE WITH HIM. I WANT TO AMEND HER BROKEN HEART. WHAT SHOULD I DO TO HAVE HER???? I CAN'T STOP THINKINF ABOUT HER!....... PLEASE HELP ME! Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 December 2009):
I know you adore this girl, and you want to rescue her. But believe me, it all has to come from her. She has got to leave him, make it clear that she won't go back. If he continues, she must report him. There is nothing you can do, unless she does something about it herself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009): All relationships have up and down times. The best thing you can do is leave them alone for a good while (at least several months) before making any move whatsoever. I tell you from personal experience that it really hurts when somebody else gets involved when the problems are fixable and then totally destroys a relationship by making matters worse.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 December 2009):
It's comes down to this. If she won't leave him, you can't have her. She has to leave him. If she doesn't, then you need to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt's not that she won't want to break with him. Her bf is being too possessive and doesn't want to leave her but she wants to leave him. More like he is stalking her.
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