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writes:I havent talked to my boyfriend in almost 2 weeks. I messaged him on facebook and asked him what's going on and he messaged me back last night and said "you told me to f*** off, so I did."I dont remember ever saying that to him, and it doesnt make sense because last time i talked to him he said he was on his way to my house but he never showed...I told him I've been really upset that i havent heard from him and i told him that i understand if he doesnt wanna talk to me ever again, but i wanna still be with him and to call me if he wants to talk, and i said Ilove you.Does that sound bad? What do you think hes going to think when he reads it? and what do you think hes going to do?
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (8 December 2009):
He probably will talk to you later, but it will probably be a while. As in, a few days, a week, maybe a few weeks?
I don't understand was soon567 is even talking about, from what I understand you didn't tell him to fuck off right? He kind of went off the deep end just randomly, right? If so, there's no need for you to apologize. Apologizing for not doing anything only makes you look like a doormat. If anybody should apologize it's him for being a jerk. Don't write any apology letters to him...wait for him to come to you. He said he would talk to you later (whenenver that is) so let him do that. Be patient and don't give in! Trust me on this one. Wait for him to come to you.
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reader, s.a.r.ah_ +, writes (8 December 2009):
s.a.r.ah_ is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk, so yesterday...he messaged me back and said that he would talk to me later... Do u think he actually will?
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (7 December 2009):
Okay, well he's being way weird and irrational. I doubt he fell asleep and didn't show up. Something is going on. It could have to do with his mom being in the hospital, but who knows? I think what you wrote him is fine and he'll probably contact you eventually. Just leave it alone for now because if you keep trying to contact him it will just make it worse.
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reader, s.a.r.ah_ +, writes (7 December 2009):
s.a.r.ah_ is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI honestly dont know what happened.
Everything was perfect.
He was supposed to come with me out of town one day, but His mom was in the hospital so he told me to take pictures. Then the next day he didnt show up, but it was late, so i think maybe he fell asleep when he was supposed to come over.
But thats all.
& the day before the trip we were together and everything was normal.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (6 December 2009):
Why would you tell him that you understand if he doesn't want to talk to you again? Did you not give us the entire story? Because it sounds to me like nothing happened besides him flaking out. Did you two get into a fight or disagreement and he's using something to said as an excuse as to why he disappeared?
Just from experience, he's taking the easy way out. He's breaking up with you by disappearing and doing things to piss you off so you'll just say it's the end of the relationship because he's too cowardly to end it himself. So do him and yourself a favor, quit being so nice about his a-hole behavior and tell him that now you're telling him to "f-off."
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 December 2009):
God only knows what happened here. But if he won't talk about it, there's really no future. Could it be that someone else sent something to him and he thought it was from you?
Also, since he didn't show at your house, there is another possibility, which is that he wasn't happy and didn't know how to break it. I don't know what he will do, or whether he will get into contact. All I know is if he does, he needs to explain where this came from, and if he doesn't, then you need to move on. Be strong for yourself, and make sure you have a few friends you can go out with a such, just to keep you busy.
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