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writes:Ok! I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and hes soooooooooo ready for me to have his baby. I love him so much thats my baby but I'm not ready yet. I want to but not just yet. How do I tell him this?????? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2009): Tell him "I'd love to have your baby, all you have to do is marry me."
He will probably be running for the next ZIP code after hearing that. And when you realize he is not even willing to sign a cheap piece of paper saying he is officially your man, you will wonder why in the hell you even thought about having his baby.
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (7 December 2009):
Tell him no, and if he doesn't like it go get Mirena, because he could try to get you pregnant on purpose, men can pull stuff like that.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 December 2009):
You have to be firm and say that you aren't ready yet. Remind him that you're the one who has to carry the baby for 9 months, and that you bear the brunt of most of the parenting. Also, be aware that me do use babies as a way of trapping a woman, so watch his attitude towards you. But if you're not ready, you're not ready. Tell him that, and explain that you just can't commit to something that big at your age.
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