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anonymous
writes:im almost 14 and i have never been on a date with a guy.ever! i dont talk 2 many guys at school but i would like to. if i flirt with i guy i always want him to come over and make the first move, but they never do.how do i get talkin with boys and finaly go on my first date???
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reader, girlly-girl +, writes (6 December 2009):
I'm 18 and still havent been a proper date. Its really nothng to worry about it. I do understand how you are feelinf though, I was in a similar siuation at your age where it feels that everyone else is dating and you arent. but trust me very very few of these 'relationships' will last. I also understand how you feel about talking to boys. But just because you are flirting with a guy doesnt necessarly mean he is into you, that might just be his nature. I think it would be best for you to just become confident withinh yourself and more confident in talking to more guys and let things progress from there.
one thing i do know from experience is that the best things happen when your not looking for them, if you go out looking for it, you may only just get hurt
good luck
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 December 2009):
You're not even 14 and you're worried about dates! I didn't have a real date or girlfriend until I was nearly 17. There's no rush young lady. Focus on finding out who you are, make a point of just speaking to other boys so you can understand them a bit more and grow in confidence with them, and when you're ready, you'll meet a great guy. Don't rush it, take your time. You need to speak to more guys without asking them out so you can just understand them a bit more. You'll be okay and you'll meet Mr Right. Focus on yourself for now.
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