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Been together 5 years and I don't want to have sex anymore.

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Question - (6 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 December 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *urley1688 writes:

So, my and my boyfriend have been dating now for 5 years. im 21 and hes 23. I love him very much and see myself marring him someday. BUT, it seems like for the past 2 years our sex life has gone down the hill. Now there are some factors that play into this like: his dad had a stroke and now is home all the time and he moved into a smaller house but that really doesnt stop us from having sex at his house. at my house its my mom,dad and brother to contend with interrupting us. he blames it on me because my parents wont allow me to stay the night at his house. and ive asked them once and they told me its not a good idea so end of story. i dont know if something is wrong with me, when i met him the sex was great I wanted to have sex all the time with him. Now its maybe once or twice a month I actually want to. But he does like all the time and i just keep rejecting him. PLEASE HELP.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009):

Have you ever spontaneously gotten horny before? I bet it's on numerous occasions that you have. Think back to as many times as possible, and for each time, what were the things that occurred? What were his actions? What were your actions? Where were you? What sequence of feelings did you go through?

Write each thing down. Each one is a map for getting horny. Tell your BF.

Have fun!

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