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writes:im so confused.ive fallen for a really nice guythe only problem is thathes gaywhat the hell do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 December 2009):
I'm afraid you've just got to work through it. He's not the guy for you, so make sure you're meeting other people and having fun for yourself, and you will meet Mr Right.
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reader, Dr Bex +, writes (6 December 2009):
Well I can empathise with you on this one. My best friend is gay and I fell for him initially. Gay guys are so kind caring, considerate and very good looking. We sometimes mistake that feeling of closeness as something more. You just have to tell yourself nothing will ever happen and you train your brain to think that way . You will soon realise that he is completely out of bounds and I assure you your feelings of lust will subside and you'll end up just loving him as a person rather than in love.
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reader, DiamondGirlx +, writes (6 December 2009):
 Theres nothing much you can do hun, he's gay
But hey he can be one hell of a mate :) x
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (6 December 2009):
 all you can do is be his buddy, or, admire from afar.
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