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writes:So I went to a really great party last night and I ended up liking this boy, my age but short. We went for a little walk down the fields because the party was in the countryside and we were laughing and dancing to music on his ipod. And at that moment, where everything was perfect we kissed. Though he really likes this girl who is getting really annoyed with him because she doesnt like him. And he said he kissed me because we were having fun but he likes her. Now, she really doesn't like him. He has said I am pretty. And i'm really confused. What can I do now to make him see that its me he should have?please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (27 April 2009):
 I think the best way of dealing with this is, like BleedingHeart says, is to wait it out. Let him choose for himself. Just keep being your wonderful self, when you two are together, definitely keep up this flirty relationship to know that you're still interested (UNLESS he starts to date this girl, in which case quit the flirting to not start any drama and keep your relationship with him friendly - so when they break up, you'll be right there to console him!).
He will choose what is right for him. The last thing you want is to pressure him to choose you, he does and then starts to really like the other girl because she has turned into a "forbidden fruit", or whatever. Pressure can sometimes push people in the wrong direction.
You guys have a super cute story though, he definitely does like you!!... let us know how things end up!! Good luck, sweetness!
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reader, bleedingheart  +, writes (27 April 2009):
All you can do is wait and be there. If this girl really doesn't like him then you have nothing to fight for! He has already kissed you so that is a sign that he likes you! Maybe when the other girl gets a boyfriend he will get the message and move on. Then he will realise you have been there the whole time. Don't pressure him, just be his friend for now!
Let me know how you get on. Hope this helps.
Bleeding heart x
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