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Question - (26 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *onfusedscotslass writes:

So. Here's a wee situation for you. You see someone you have really strong feelings for every weekday, and you're pretty close to them. You know you'll only ever be friends, you understand that. You know that you're going to leave, and that if you do nothing you'll never see this person again. You want to say something to them, suggest keeping in touch as friends, something. But you're not in a position where that would be easy and you don't want to seem a bit weird. You know that if you never see them again you'll be devastated. Do you go for it on the pretence that if you seem weird and you are rejected at least you'll not have to face them again, or do you shy away from talking to them and avoid being rejected and accept the situation?

What are your opinions? Thanks.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009):

go for it, you got nothing to loose! AND YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (26 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntYou have answered this yourself.... What have you got to loose? Just talk to him!

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A female reader, mint United Kingdom +, writes (26 April 2009):

mint agony aunti think that you should try and talk to him and say you want to kepp in contact

otherwise you will ost propbabli regret it

and if things go wromg...who cares you're moving!!

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