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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I am so confused. My ex and I were together for 7 years and our relationship wasn't a bad one although it was rocky towards the end. What I want to know is why he left me to be with women who treat him like crap. I was faithful and I loved him yet the women that he has been with after me (and before me) have all cheated on him and treated him badly. He is always so messed up over them yet he could leave me and our child. He goes after the single mothers with issues yet that's how he left me. I'm a struggling single mum now. The only time he is interested in me is when he is lonely in between girlfriends. I feel so worthless. I find it hard to heal and move on as I still have feelings for him and we have a child together. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): Your right :) I will try to stay positive. Thankyou gina xox
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): I guess it is his loss. Sometimes i think it must ov been my fault like maybe i wasnt good enough. Ive had self esteem & trust issues ever since. I thank you for your kind responses. Its a big help & greatly appreciated. I will try to stay strong.
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reader, Rosygirls92 +, writes (26 April 2009):
Oh my goodness, sounds like a bad case of being way to nice. Perhaps you should play 'hard to get?' It's been proven to work for centuries. Don't just act like a go-between girlfriend. Be firm in what you want.
But he sounds selfish. You seem like a nice woman. Perhaps looking for another guy who would be willing to appreciate your lovely qualities and share a family?
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