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writes: I don't understand. I like this lad more than anything have done for ages! Thing is from everything thats happened and been said in the past it seemed he really liked me and then when he did from what was heard he told some people. After this a certain person got jealous and turned everyone else against me!Since this he's had stuff said to him and i have to me about the whole situation but we both don;t listen to it!Thing is some of mine n his friends(not any of them that caused the problems) they can see that whenever me and him are in the same room and stuff theres a lot of tension...infct someone noticed tis that had no idea about anything that had gone off between us and asked one of our m8s if something was going off between us. This girl serious thought me and him liked each other. Also other poeple have seen the way hes different around me to other and that he does stare at me! ITS NOT JUST ME THAT STILL SEE'S THIS!!The thing is...hes never admitted he likes me to anyone of our m8s thats asked him and tried to make it clear he dont but the way hes done it and how he acts you'd think he's hiding something! The thing is theres also afew down sides..When we are around these others at college(that said stuff) he doesn't talk to me much...now i say that he doesn't seem to have the skill it takes to start a convo with me on msn either or send me random stuff like he does other people. He is abit different with me if we're out and away from those people but hes not mega different theres still some tension and we still have a lot of problems talking to each other. Like i have to start it. The thing is he knows we have stuff in common, hes told me before we're gd m8s n stuff, and he knows i'll talk back so i don;t understand whats going on. Yet when i wasn;t there one day a mate of said "did u miss anyone?"(because half our class didnt go in that day) and he said yea (my name). We sit toegther at college. Thats another thing i don;t get we sit toegther in lessons. Yet if we in the common rooms or something he wont. Its well weird! Do you think its because of the others saying stuff he acts this way? is he shy? does he not know wot to do himself? or does he jsut not like me? honestly though sometimes i;ve thought he doesn;t wanna be friends! The weird thing is is one mintue we don;t talk and stuff and ten the next day its like hes got a sudden boost of confidence and we like best mates!I don't know what to do!
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reader, sunny123  +, writes (27 April 2009):
I'm sorry to say this but...it seems to me that there is no reason why you should think he wants to go out with you. I don't mean to be cruel, but he hasn't said or done anything that gives that impression. You seem obsessed by this boy and obviously like him alot. Do you think you could be hoping for something and in doing so imagining something that just isn't there? We all do this in life...you are not alone! Boys/men can seem to send mixed messages at times, the key is remembering that if they like you THEY WILL LET YOU KNOW!Don't waste your time thinking about his boy as anything other than a friend. Find somebody else who chases YOU and makes it clear you are the one he wants. You are worth it!
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