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writes:I asked a question here at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/his-comment-to-the-porn-and-dvds-i.html(however, I lost the password to the account, and can't remember the email address I signed up with, so please delete my old account!)Gina suggested I try questioning him, well, he's away on business for the next fortnight, so I can't really.I did try to discuss it with him, but he was insistent it was a private matter for him but the way he answered it made it seem like he was on edge. I agree, this isn't something you'd expect a husband to have, would you? I did get a promise out of him to stop, and the matter was left there, at that, for a few days.However, on Tuesday, I was stunned to find in the spare room upstairs loads of copies of Playguy and Playgirl magazines in a box on the bed there. My husband had promised not to do this to me, how could he go back on this??What exactly are these titles?? I know they're pornographic, but I don't exactly feel comfortable looking them up on Google (malware etc. you know and general uncomfortability...)Straight Latino Street Thugs (DVD)Boyz in the Crib (DVD)Freshmen (magazine)Blueboy (magazine)Attitude (magazine)I feel so upset now and need even more help than last time. I had thought about counselling, but worry it would make me depressed.This just doesn't seem right, and I feel unhappy a lot of the time. I feel happy when I'm with my sister or parents. I don't feel like I can tell them about it as I worry about what they'd think.I wish our relationship would be more passionate - but how can I ever trust my husband again?There's something wrong with our relationship, I can't quite pin my finger on it, but there is something wrong...Jenny (33 years old)
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