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writes:Hello People, Here is the story:-About 3 years ago I joined an adult dating site. Mainly as a way to see if I could have sex, just recreationally with no strings. Like minded people looking for the same thing.Anyway after much searching of adverts, profiles and many e-mails later still no contact. However I got a few womens' e-mail addresses and have been pleasant without being forward or crude. A few e-mails but that has been that. A little while ago due to my unsuccessful attempt at luring someone into my bed, I decided I would not renew my subscription and left a note on the site to that effect. I still however kept the e-mail addresses of those that still "interested" me. A few days ago I decided to send of a quick e-mail to one just to say "Hi" "how are you?" and so on. Left my telephone numbers as I had done previously to show I was willing to be contacted and in fact had given this person my numbers before but they never contacted me.Then today I get an e-mail (all in block capitals) to say that they had phoned me on both numbers last night and as I had neither replied to both calls ands was in fact ignoring them it would be better to say goodbye than carry on. Bearing in mind this was the very first phone contact I had had from them in 3 years since I first spotted them on the internet. I also got a text and replied briefly to say sorry as I didn't hear the phones ringing.So my questions are:- 1) Do I phone them back or delete their numbers?2) Do I e-mail them again or delete them?3) What is the normal internet etiquette for this scenario?4) Is this person using reverse psychology?Thanks
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reader, Mikados are lush! +, writes (26 April 2009):
 This one sounds a bit of a bunny boiler to me? Temper tantrum or what. Could be a bit issued up. Maybe join a dating site specific to your needs? Quite often women on dating sites are looking for Mr right. You only want to be Mr right now. And there are loads of those sites out there, you just need to search. My bro is on one called adult sex guide dot com, I think thats it anyway. No chance of getting to know someone on there, the pictures say it all! lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): I think what you do is forget about this one and be wary of giving out your personal number to just anybody. You will find others!
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