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writes:I'm the jealous type and my girl has a close freind who is a male, its not that i dont trust her i want to know what the hell they be talking about, and it seems like ever since me and her has been together ive seen his name all over her "AIM" icon, what the hell if not her I should be on it when i am 60% of the time. my question is am i at fault or wrong for having thoughts that this guy wants my girl??? ladies please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): Just because you are with a girl doesn't mean other guys won't be interested. Almost all my friends are guys, and my bf has come to accept that. At the same time, I've been asked out twice or maybe even thrice over the course of our 4-month relationship.
If you trust this girl, why are you so worried? She will just say no to them if she's the girl you hope she is, right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): I'm not really sure what all you just said.. but i can tell you this to directly answer your title question.. it doesn't matter if someone wants your girl. As long as you trust her, that should be the end of the story. Lots of poeple will probably be interested in her along the course of your relationship, and probably some will be interested in you, but that is the fault of neither you nor her. The best thing to do is not focus on it and just be glad that she is not with that other guy. SHe is yours. But if you get too jealous or overwhelming or obnoxious, that may not stand true for very long.
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reader, bethevans  +, writes (26 April 2009):
 Hiii, riteeys my best friend is in the same situation exept its her boyfriend thats actin like u r .. its not wrong.. its perfectly normal but u just need to be cool with it act like theres nothing rong babe and then she'l realise tht ur not acting jelous and shel just feel happy tht she has u :D x
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