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writes:please help i think my marriage is over i am a man of 43 my wife is 42 my wife never talks to me never shares problems but she tells her friends all our persnal stuff shaers jokes emails scandal just about anthing but cant say a word to me. i try to talk to her but I just short answers like yes no, ok, whatever, plus we very rarely have sex and she will go out to her friend's house or for a walk and not tell me but she has to know every move that i make. She started to dress up and wear under wear that she didnt a few years ago plus got tattoo can you help
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): It happens. It's hard to keep a relationship alive, current and relevant over a large number of years.
All I can suggest is to think of what brought you together in the first place. Are there things you used to like to do together that you've let fall by the wayside? Are there new things you could suggest that might engage the two of you as a couple?
You didn't mention kids -- is that an issue here?
In the end, though, if she's not willing to communicate or engage, then yes, the marriage may indeed be over.
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