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writes:hey just need some advice. ive been with my boyfriend/fiancee for 2 yrs know. at the beginning of the relationship everything was perfect i loved being around him there as nothing i was to complain about,the only thing was his daughter he has a know 3 yr old daughter but when i started with him his baby momma took her to jamaica cause she had no place to live so all she did was him so he can talk and know how his daughter is doing so eversince his mom and i guess baby momma found out that he really loved me and wasnt breaking up with me and proposed to me i guess they both was upset cause they thought he was going threw a phrase and know his mother cannot stand me and his baby momma to the point that i have gotten pregnant by him and his mother had called me and started telling me such negative things and also said that his baby momma said if i have this baby he will never see his daughter again so she told me i better not have this baby so i was forced to have an abortion i didnt want to have, so know at this moment he has his daughter and i feel like our relationship is going down cause now we never alone cause he has his daughter.We can never go out know cause his mom is always workin and his baby mother left his daughter with him cause she dont live here so basically his freedom is over and im geting tired of it and he says he doesnt want to lose me he loves me to much and he doesnt care what his mother or his baby mother thinks about our relationship he staying with me whether they like it or not so i dont know what to do i cry every night about this and he says just ignore them
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reader, pure shade 5 +, writes (30 April 2009):
 this is kinda like what happend to me with my ex but i chose diffrently i picked the baby my wife is carring...but still if u love him and he loves u yall can work threw this i mean i know how difficult it is to raise a child my mom had to raise 3 kids on her own... is there any day cares around u could drop her off there for a bit or a best friends house
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reader, Chiquisz613 +, writes (26 April 2009):
If he says he loves you, and you do too. Dont let anything get in the way of it. Atleast not his mother or bby mama. A relationship with a child involved isnt as easy as any other because you are basically dating 2 persons. YOu have to understand him, as much att as he would like to give you might not be as easy having his daughter around. All you can do is treat her as your own. Let him see you love them both, there are many things you can do together, but ofcourse let him know every now and then you would like some time just for the two of you!... About the abortion! you shouldnt have done it! Im not in favor of that type of stuff but i cant judge you. All i can tell is to start standing up for yourself and your loved one!
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