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writes:Hi, i hav a problem with my ex. We were together for 6yrs and we have a child together. Our relationship was a bit rocky towards the end but i never thought ov being without him tho he thought differently. He started going out a lot and staying out late. I could tell that he didnt want to be around home and we were fighting a lot so i left. I needed time away. He told me afterwards that he wanted to be with me so i went around to talk to him and he had changed his mind. Not long after that he had someone else. I moved to another town and he followed and we moved in together. He eventualy left me for the other girl and then he came back again. I told him enough was enough and told him to leave. He did. Then he found another girl. He has just broken up with her and the other night he rang me drunk telling me that he thinks im hot and we shuld have another baby and he said 'i love you' i hung up on him but now its playing on my mind because i still love him and we have a son together. Please help. How do i handle this situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): Thankyou for your answers. I have come on here looking for guidance because i have tryd to move on but i find it so hard to get rid ov my feelings for him. I am still in love with him. I get that he doesnt really want to be with me but he makes me weak. I am trying my best to stay strong. Thankyou again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): not to be mean or anything but i think this guys is just playing with your head. yea he might love you, but not enough to realize that when he's with you your the only girl he's supposed to be with. if u keep getting back with him and he keeps going to other girls, i dont understand why ur having a difficult time wondering what u should do. how long do u think this can last? i mean, he can just keep doing this to u over and over and over... u have a son with him, yes, but that doesnt mean u have to stop caring about ur self and excepting him back everytime he decides he does love you. if i were u i wouldnt get back with him again, because i wouldnt want my bf getting back with me and then leaving in about a week for another person and then wanting me the fallowing week. leave him a lone for a while. let him live his life with out u for a while. let him realize what he doesnt have if he's not with u and if he does really really love u and wants to be with you than he'll come back after so long but if he doesnt than he was most likely playing games...think about u and ur son and what u guys need before him
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