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writes:Hi I’m new to this site and I’m in need of help.I’m 18 and I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and three months. I was a virgin before I met him and I made him wait for a good 7 months and he was fine with that. When we finally had sex it was great he couldn’t keep his hands of me. But in the past few months it’s gone completely the other way. He never wants to have sex with me. I try to initiate it and he tells me to get off or moves his hands away and if I wait for him to initiate it I’m waiting for months. We’ve just had our aniversary a few months ago and we didn’t even have sex on our aniversary. I get really upset because I feel rejected and undesirable and I wonder if I’m a bad lover even though I know he loves I’ve tried talking to him and all he says is ‘why do you only care about sex.’ What should I do? Thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks its nice to know im not alone on this one. i dont know what to think anymore i hope any advise i get might help you too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): I had the same problem just a little different, We stopped having sex after i got pregnant. I try to initiate it as well and he doesnt respond! I understand how you feel, And I too want to know what to do! Its been 2 years since my son was born, and we rarely, I mean Rarely have sex at all!..I just turned 21. He says the same thing "why is that all that matters, I guess they dont understand its awquard going from an everyday thing to nothing! makes me feel like hes cheating. Even tho i know he loves me!
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