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I want to love him but I don't know how...

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Question - (26 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2009)
A female Philippines age 41-50, *hyka writes:

I am married but I dont love my husband. I dont like his physical appearance thats why I cant accept him physically..But I still married him for 2 years because I was afraid of being single. I thought I will fall in love with him once we get married but until now I dont love him.. He stays in his work every week day and goes home every weekend.. so we really have little time to each other and now im pregnant and still I feel not happy of what I am now.. I want to accept him. I want to love him but I don't know how.

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A female reader, vwomen United States +, writes (26 April 2009):

vwomen agony auntHow could you do that to him if you never loved him you shouldn't have say" i do". People today get married for all the wrong reasons and it not fair to the other person. You have to talk with him and work this out you can find something in his heart or about him that you love, u married him didn't you.

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A female reader, mint United Kingdom +, writes (26 April 2009):

mint agony auntYou are not supposed to force yourself to love, you're supposed be in love beforehand... if I was you I would finish it, tell him how you feel and go and find your soul mate.

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