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writes:MOD NOTE: This is NOT written like its coming from an 18 year old...right well, my boyfriend dumped me and we were quite close? so he told me loads of stuff, and i went and told everyone our conversation:(. and he went and dumped me. but see on thursday, sean the boy i USE to like, now likes ME. and he went and told drew(the one i like just now) that he likes me, and now he thinks i like sean. and see in maths on friday he was doing a test, but he didnt do any of it and turned around and spoke to my friend nida, and he kept asking her about me, asking if i liked sean. so do you think he still likes me or not? and he looks at me and smiles when i see him? how can i gain his trust again? Reply to this Question
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (26 April 2009):
Well he obviously likes you, his body language and bhavouir is telling you that, but you hurt him and trust is always hard to gain especially when its be lost.
Learn from it, next time he tells you something dont go and tell everyone else, its private and hes confided in you as his gf so dont break that. You need to talk to him but first id speak to sean, you say you use him? really? you think thats right? This will never get you far, he has feelings too so dont lead him on, he deserves the truth hes probably going to be crushed so dont be too flippant, its obviously something hes not going to brush off. The only way you will ever start moving in the right direction is when you learn to be honest with people and when your bf talks to you and you tell other people know when to stop, everyone has limits.
Talk to him, be honest open and genuine the whole way through, an apology is always good but be serious with him, he likes you a lot so work at it with him.
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