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writes:I'm 15, and my ex is 17. I recently dumped him, like 2 weeks ago, after 5 months. We both agreed that the relationship was coming to a halt and there wasn't any way to save it. And we've both been getting on fine since then, he's my best friend. Every week, me and a group of friends go out and get drunk. Yesterday we went out to this house and put up a tent, sat on the trampoline, played spin the bottle, I made out with a few guys. Now apparently while Ii was doing all this, he was watching getting all sulky and going into the house and being depressed. Now I can understand if he feels like that. But I was told after I'd left this party, he like tried to beat up the guy I hooked up with for the evening. I'm a little worried that it might escalate to something stupid and big. And I don't want anyone to get hurt. So is there anything I can do to make him stop?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): your ex, is your best friend?
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Yes, you make him stop by not hooking up with guys right in front of him. Unless you are TRYING to make him jealous? And exes as best friends are rarely rarely not holding some form of attachment to you still. Yes you can still hang out with him, if you absolutely must, but realize the "duh" factor of this situation, please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): You have to make him understand that you're not together and that you are free to do as you please.
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