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writes:Got a situation.Met a girl who is married but seperated from her old man because he is in prison for beating on her.She just had a baby a few months back, he is like five months now.She got an order of protection..etc..I was his buddy long before he went.The night he went to jail, I hadnt known and stopped by to see him.Well she was all crying and just inconsolable over it all.I never planned on it , but in the few days following his arrest, she and I spent alot of time together; I treated her like a woman, not an object.OK.so we slept together . three weeks later she calls me at work; A guy we knew raped her and she needed me there with her.thwo weeks passed and she comes up pregnant. what do I do? she had only been with me since the baby was born;she wasnt healed enough before he went to jail;is it possible its her rapists kid??I care for this girl so much but I cant do this now. what do I do?
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reader, Gary Logan +, writes (26 April 2009):
Gary Logan is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIn response to the first person who answered;The one child is for sure NOT mine. She had him like I said before I met her.The question is this;We messed around shortly after he went to jail. She said they got into it because she wasnt healed enough to have sex yet from the first baby.I dont know specifics.I know she and I had sex twice, but it was too much for her.Pain wise.Anyway, so then three weeks later she was raped.I know for sure it was because I had to take care of her and the baby afterwords.She has been breastfeeding so she doesnt get her periods , and of course now with her being pregnant she wont either.I care for this girl so much, but I cant love her; I cant explain why, I just cant.If its my baby she is carrying I will step up ..Whats anyones opinion?
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reader, b.rye +, writes (26 April 2009):
 A paternity test wouldn't be inappropriate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): try to get a paternity test... i would tell u to have her plan out the days and months she got pregnant to see who she had sex with at the time but so much has gone on...so i think the easiest thing to do would just be to have a paternity test...
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