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writes:Hey guys, i have an issue that has been bothering me for some time and i dont know what to do and how to deal with it. The problem i have is i have been with my boyfriend for about a year now and at first everything was ok, a bit hard because of my mum resenting the fact i left home to live with him. The other factor is because i come from a strong religious background and when i left to live in sin the religion i belong to cast me out so to speak. So it has been so hard. A few months ago i felt like i didnt want to be with him any more and these feelings kept eating away at me, But i managed to ignore them and carry on. But it got to a point last week when i had to do something about it. I told my boyfriend that i wasnt happy and that i wanted to move back in with my mum. It made me so sad because i didnt realise how much he cared for me. He started crying and getting relly upset. I felt so bad but i still wanted to go home. The thing is i am still with my boyfriend and i am sort of happy but not as happy as i would like to be. What do i do? Do I go home and live my life without him or stay with him and be unhappy? The other thing that makes it so much more complicated is im carrying his baby. help! Reply to this Question
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (26 April 2009):
 You seem quite serious about living with him. You are also pregnant which is a big thing. Is there any possibility the two of you could get a house nearer to your parents?
However if you have large doubts, then this is not such a good idea. Could you maybe just stay with him at weekends and live at home during the week?
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reader, mint +, writes (26 April 2009):
 i think that you should carry on your relationship with him but just move homeand tell him that you will most probably move back when your heavily pregnant so you can be a proper family!
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