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writes:Hi. Please help!I'm 21 years old and in a relationship which is seemingly going no-where.It all started 4 years ago when i dated a girl, who i was madly in love with. I lost my virginity to her and everything seemed perfect. Then one day, out of the blue, she told me that she weren't happy and ended it. I was devestated, but knew i would eventually have to move on. During the time we spent together, i became close with her best friend,and this friendship has remained. Just after last christmas i told me ex that dispite everything, and the 4 years apart, i was still in love with her, but she told me she wasn't ready, but that she wanted to wait, because she still really loved me, as i do her.Because she told me to wait, i started dating her best friend, who i'd been really close with.We have been together 6 months and things haven't extactly been perfect. She goes out with other guys, spending nights out with them, she barely recognises i'm alive sometimes, and she will not sleep with me.However, recently we have become much closer, and things started looking up. Then out of the blue, my ex told me that she loves me and she wants me back. I still really love her, and she is the girl i want to be with.What should i do?ThanksRich
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): The thing you need to find out is, does she want you back just because you are with her friend and she is jealous?
You don't seem very happy with the friend so maybe you could split with her, see the ex as a friend and see how things go?
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reader, uncle111  +, writes (26 April 2009):
lol im in the some boat bro lol but im is diff my ex started dating a 18 yearold and she is 24 and im 20 al most 21 and i ask this girl out now she is my gf and my ex out of the blue said that her and her bf broke up and she wants me back she said to me i want you back and said i cant do nothing about it i have a gf now she got all jeasoul because i think she did really love me idk tho she must around with guys friends she called them but i now what was going down lol my new gf makes me happy she put me in her day and i feel loved now and i never felt that way with a girl i would never go back to my ex if i tryed she hurt me so im not doing that again
man just say with that girl your with now and things will get bad
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reader, mint +, writes (26 April 2009):
 i think that you should stay as you are because how will you know if your ex is not ready again nd dumps yuu, then you will have no-one to go back to
just stai wid yur girlfwend for the meanwhile and see wat happens after dat...
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (26 April 2009):
 If you love this other woman and would want to be with her, you cannot keep leading your girlfriend on. It is unfair on both her, and you. You have to be with who you would rather be with. How would you feel if you found out your girlfriend was dating you, but would rather be with someone else? You just have to be honest with your girlfriend. Tell her you do really like her, and she has been a wonderful girlfriend to you; however, you still have feelings for your ex and you feel it would be unfair on her to continue this relationship. Then tell your ex that you would love to be with her.
Hope this helps
xx
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